* added non-pod data support to events (event delete can now call dtors)
* improved cleanup of ipc message objects (because of non-pod event data support)
* moved the "message received" event up to ipc server and client (passed on from proxies)
* separated ipc client proxy mutex into read and write (i think read was deadlocking write)
* fixed cpu spinning on ipc log send buffer thread (now uses wait cond like before).
* added mutex to client proxy to protect stream
* added try/catch to ipc log outputter buffer thread
* protected ipc client proxy list with mutex (saw a weird stl error, might be caused by cross-thread weirdness)
* raised the log-to-console level to DEBUG2
* added force option to ipc log buffer (to side-step the anti-recursion "mechanism")
* made relauncher always relay server/client messages to ipc client (gui)
added hack to daemon to suppresses service controller false positive error.
tidied up a few of the log lines to make the place look nicer for newbies.
removed annoying build line from dist command.
implemented ipc "hello" message (to identify client type)
integ tests working for hello message, but use of ipc in main program has problem with events.
